I’m wondering if cats think of us kind of like how a person thinks of a friendly bull: aware that they could easily kill us, but not necessarily afraid of them; or more like a large Dalmatian: they could fuck us up, but most of us don’t really think about that unless they’re being aggressive.
I grew up with dogs and feel like I understand them a lot better than I do cats as a whole. I adopted my cat almost four years ago and I feel like I get her pretty well, but I don’t really have an idea of what she thinks about me. I also don’t really know any other cats, though I’ve gotten along with strays and friends’ cats a lot better since I got mine.
Cat tax:
My Izzy (cat tax:)
Isn’t even slightly afraid of me; I’m her favorite sleeping surface, she doesn’t hesitate to climb up on me, step on the most sensitive giblets she can reach, curl up and take a nap. I’m pretty sure she does know how much bigger I am than her, but she doesn’t seem to let it bother her. She’s not even afraid of getting stepped on, judging by how much she likes being underfoot.
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When I got the bus to college, there used to be a guy I’d see a couple of times a month who’d have a shoulder-cat riding him on the bus
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Yes. And they know you won’t do shit about it. After all, if they stick around, from their perspective, they think you are theirs.
I don’t think that they are too aware of size differences, based on plenty videos that I’ve seen of cats chasing bears away. Here’s one of them.
Instead I guess that what triggers them to think “fuck, it could kill me!” is 99% behaviour.
Do you think the cat thinks it can win? I always assumed it was just trying to scare off a threat, but I don’t really know. My cat’s an indoor cat and though she used to growl at my neighbors (and get in between us, my heart), I didn’t think she really thought she was more of a threat than me. She also hides behind me sometimes when new people come over, so who knows if she thinks they’re only a threat to her or what.
Cats don’t fight to take anyone down, they mostly fight to scare eachother off, as they are so fragile as beings, both in attack and defence
Might be that they just transfer that to anything they want to get rid of.
Had my elderly, whole life indoors cat stare down a British Mastiff (130 kg dog, bred for guard duty), and consequently train it what surfaces she was allowed on and not.
And if I were the bear, yeah, I probably know I could kill that little thing as soon as I got hold of it, but it’s way faster than me and it’s made of knives. It’s gonna hurt me the whole time I’m killing it. Why risk it?
And also, the bear isn’t out to cause trouble, not worth the hassle to fight anything when you’re out exploring.
Perhaps; I’ve also seen the opposite, a cat being considerably scared of a smaller critter (another cat), because the smaller one showed no fear.
Or perhaps the whole idea is to avoid the fight altogether, like some sort of chicken game. Either way they don’t seem to take size into account.
If that were true, cats wouldn’t naturally fluff their hair to appear larger. I think they’ll just go after big stuff when they feel the need and know they’re pretty badass.
We do the same when scared, and at least in our case it’s outright useless. And more importantly it isn’t a conscious reaction, so it’s really hard to associate it with the cat potentially assessing the size of the threat and trying to make itself look larger.
Also note that they’ll also do it when they feel threatened by a smaller critter.
That was INSANE
To be fair, that’s a black bear and they are afraid of everything. They are pansies. They will bluff charge you and if you do nothing and just look at them they get awkward and start wandering off. You can charge them and they’ll sprint too. They just act on bear reputation but if you don’t act afraid of them they short circuit and have no idea how to respond.
Source: Everytime as a kid we went blueberry picking we had to deal with these guys. Same with going to the landfill or hunting.
They can be dangerous if starving or if they’re used to humans. That’s about it, though.
Bear entertaning the kids by pretending to be the blueberries warden then fleeing as a cartoons vilain
Sorry this is my headcanon now
Cats don’t have to worry about size because they already know that they have all the power in the relationship.
I mean, that’s true. If I treated her like she treats me, she’d leave, lol
My wife and I adopted a kitten when we got engaged. And up until we had a baby a few years later, that cat 100% thought it was going to grow up to be like us.
I remember reading on the old site that cats saw us humans as “big, neutral cats”.
The trouble I have with this idea is that adult cats meow at us. They don’t do that in the wild with each other. Kittens do it to get mom’s attention, but not adult cats. They mostly communicate with body language.
Yea that’s right, except kitten at their mothers. Perhaps they see us as caretakers, surrogate mothers ?
i heard this too lol
specifically i heard that they see us as incompetent cats and want to take care of us x3
I’ve always felt that we are like clumsy giants to them lumbering on throughout the home with the great strength and dexterity to manipulate objects. In spite of all of this they can swing from loving you to down right cold shoulders on a whim!
My obligatory cat tax. :)
She looks like our tortie. Is she also really fucking weird?
Isn’t that a build in feature with torties?
I always like confirming that my pets aren’t just weird because of me.
Making fight decisions based on “could I kill it” is a convenience of human technology. The ability to seclude ourselves during healing and medicine allowing us to avoid infection, heal faster, and heal from more serious wounds has skewed how we think about fighting. Most animals make fight decisions less on “can I kill it” and more on “how badly can it injure me”.
Sure a human can kill a house cat, absent technology can the human do it without having the skin on an arm or leg shredded? Will the injuries be significant enough to make you unable to protect yourself from other predators? Will the injuries set up infection and kill you?
Cats are basically the perfect land predators. Even with their small size domestic cats are the most deadly and destructive hunters on earth.
They are ambush predators. They are really good at evaluating prey, identifying strengths and weaknesses, figuring out how, when, and if they should attack. Cats know whether or not they can win a fight. Cats will sometimes charge into fights they can’t win, like attacking the bear, because they know that they can inflict damage and that the other animal is making a similar fight decision. The hyper aggression of a 10lb claw tornado flying toward a 200lb bear is usually enough to convince the bear that the fight isn’t worth it.
this is 3am rabbit hole material… very interesting, thanks for the writeup
10 pound claw tornado… I’ll be stealing that :p
They would notice if they cared. They do not.
Cats can be pretty enigmatic and have a lot of individual differences in personality. At least size can’t be the whole picture, based on tiny tiny kittens squeaking terror into the hearts of giant four-ton beastly hounds, bears, what have you.
Maybe we humans are just size queens, as nothing stops a chihuahua or something from doing the same.
Some people have suggested that cats get to see you as a “pack member” - dead birds and mice and stuff are gifts because you’re just too incompetent at this hunting stuff, so they graciously help you out.
I have no idea if it’s true but I remember someone saying that animals don’t understand the concept of bluffing so if you get charged by something that’s a lot bigger than you but you stand your ground then there’s a good chance it turns around because it assumes that there’s a reason for your confidence.
I doubt it’s that simple however. After all animals bluff too.
I doubt it’s that simple however. After all animals bluff too.
If animals bluff it’s because their bluffing ancestors survived to reproduce. There’s something to it.
I think the thing is a fight is costly, even if you win the fight. So sometimes it’s not a bluff so much as a demonstrating of fighting spirit, and killing even a weaker animal is more costly when it displays fighting spirit, ie the willingness to fight even if it’s a losing battle.
They use the same communicative signals with us as with their young. To cats, we are overgrown, clumsy kittens that never learn to hunt but know a mysterious way to get food.
this makes sense as the ownership model is that cats own people not the other way around
I always think of my cat as a lovable idiot little brother. Sometimes he wants to be like me. Sometimes he thinks I’m a huge idiot and wants to go his own way.
I am sure they are aware of it. I think it’s like us and horses: yes, this creature is much larger and could hurt or kill me if it wanted to, but horses are basically cool and friendly and we trust them.
I’ve been with my SO for more than 4 years, and I often don’t understand her motivations either.
