• Vox@lemmy.world
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    5 months ago

    Spoken like a short man :P

    In all seriousness though, you should thank them for bringing it up, the sooner the better for you to realize what they think matters and if they are shallow about that, there are likely other things as well. So good for you to learn early and move on to someone who will appreciate you as you are.

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      5 months ago

      So apparently it’s important to be told this?? Now tell a black man it’s “important to be white” in a relationship…

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        5 months ago

        Yes it is good to know this because you don’t have to waste your time with them now that you know they’re a shallow piece of shit :)

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        5 months ago

        “Important to be” is the wrong language, but it’s absolutely fine if someone doesn’t find someone else attractive because of their height, color, or anything else. Attraction is subjective.

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        5 months ago

        He’s saying that she outs herself as shallow and that is important to know early on. Fuck her for mocking you height but thank her for giving you such an early warning to leave