So… let’s talk about my last post.

I got A LOT of comments telling me to gain weight and that I look unhealthy.

Any comments like that from not on will earn you a block. I understand you’re coming from a place of concern- but I am active on being healthy.

I don’t weigh myself, I eat when I’m hungry, I eat a lot of fresh food, I love cooking and baking, I love swimming, I love being out in the sunshine, I eat too much sugar.

Don’t make me feel weird about my weight. I deal with that enough in real life.

  • ~~Nudermeisters~~@lemmynsfw.com
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    1 year ago

    ! You replied right as I was editing, you might want to go back and check my comment again, added some image edits, if you want them.

    As for the body shaming, its a technique shitty people use to degrade someone so they are more likely to want to please them, since they have nothing to bring to the table, they try to force you to beg for their approval , which is of course, a false value proposition.

    Online, in 2023, the more someone body shames you and tries to bring you down, the more they actually want you and can’t fuckin stand that you are too good for them.

    Also, i know its not typically cool to point out racial differences, but lets be very real about the fact that some ethnicities, overall, carry weight very differently.

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      1 year ago

      I saw the edit! Thank you!

      And yes. This is not a safe space for body shaming. I will shame you back.