So… let’s talk about my last post.

I got A LOT of comments telling me to gain weight and that I look unhealthy.

Any comments like that from not on will earn you a block. I understand you’re coming from a place of concern- but I am active on being healthy.

I don’t weigh myself, I eat when I’m hungry, I eat a lot of fresh food, I love cooking and baking, I love swimming, I love being out in the sunshine, I eat too much sugar.

Don’t make me feel weird about my weight. I deal with that enough in real life.

  • just_another_person@lemmy.worldEnglish
    3·
    1 year ago

    Yeah, exactly. If it sounded like I was saying something different, my apologies. It just seems weird that so many people in 2023 still think it’s okay to anonymously just throw comments out like that. Surely you wouldn’t do it in person on the street to a complete stranger, so wtf would you do the same on the internet? The damage and outcome is essentially the same.

    • Sierra@lemmynsfw.comOPEnglish
      5·
      1 year ago

      It’d be 100% different if it was coming from a place of concern. I’m a small girl- I get it. I also naturally have a very small waist and wide hips which makes my hip bones look more prominent… I get it.

      I just don’t like being asked if I’m on drugs because I’m thin.