I read this a few times and I think I finally understand a small piece of what they’re saying. I wrote : “ I’m confused? “ Then this friendly chap started ranting about me not knowing the difference between a question and a statement, possibly to deflect from his original “their” remark which I still can’t figure out. Hilariously my “I’m confused” comment was both a question and a statement simultaneously and was meant as question to this lovely fellow while stating my confusion to anyone else who might read my comment.