Hello everyone,

I left a western European country (think sunset at 16:30 in December) for a southern European country. I’m visiting my family for the holidays, and it just feels very strange to be back here.

I now live in a city, and the contrast with the urban sprawl in my previous country is almost jarring. Car dependency is also quite high, while I mostly walk around where I live now.

For people who experienced similar situations, did you find any way to deal with it? I’m only here for a few weeks, so it’s fine, but I guess I just wanted to see if someone has any tip.

It also probably means I made a good decision to move where I live now.

  • kamenLady.@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    Always, when i’m visiting the country i left 30 years ago ( i use to visit every 3 to 4 years ), i keep looking if i recognize someone from the time i lived there, only to catch myself looking for people that are around the same age, as when i left.

    You end up having a unique perspective on that reality, that no one there shares with you.

    They are there, just living their lives, without interruption.