• davel [he/him]@lemmy.ml
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    11 months ago

    It’s true that as a lemmy.ml admin, I’m not going out of my way to make this an inclusive space for traditional family values. I have different priorities for whom I make this space inclusive.

    • bane_killgrind@lemmy.ml
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      11 months ago

      So implying that name by marriage still implies ownership, excludes me, a man that wants to fly the banner of his wife’s clan.

      You aren’t supporting your “different priorities” very well.

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        11 months ago

        Rarely see it spelled out that clearly, I think that’s a huge issue with modern “progressivism”.

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          11 months ago

          Progressivism has no inherent need to be all-encompassing. In fact, keeping certain groups *cough conservatives cough* not included is an essential part of successful progressivism.

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            11 months ago

            Who knew how many reactionaries would get flushed out of the bushes by a little off-hand comment about my personal life?

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            11 months ago

            You’re referring to the tolerance paradox, and I completely agree with that, but I don’t think that’s what happened here.