• Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech
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    9 months ago

    Who knows at this point! One of my make mentors said it to me years ago. I said something stupid like “isn’t that kind of girly?” About something and he replied “real men don’t care”. Shattered my toxic masculinity.

    I’m waaay happier now, and realized I can be whoever I want. I can be an and still be a massive swiftie, enjoy hard rock while enjoying a rom com that same day, it’s just easier

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      9 months ago

      Oh I agree whole heartedly.

      I meant more that if you don’t actually care, you don’t preface it with how manly that makes you.