• Aesthesiaphilia@kbin.social
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    1 year ago

    They feel like if they give any wrong answer early on, they’ve lost their chance.

    To be fair, that’s usually correct. Women have their pick of men, generally. If a guy answers a band she doesn’t like, most likely she’ll move on.

    So guys lie and tell her everything she wants to hear. And then once they get their foot in the door, they can start telling the truth.

    This guy handled it very badly but I can see why he didn’t want to answer.

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      1 year ago

      Yeah I may not be a relationship expert but if I have to lie for an ice breaker not even a deep question just an ice breaker I don’t think that relation will work

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          11 days ago

          Me and my gf have generally have an overlap in music taste (heavy metal/hard rock) but only I like heavy electronic (too “noisy”/overstimulating for bee) and the music I don’t like of hers is more pop music (I like some of it also depends how I feel)

          So I’ll go break the news to her that we have to break up due to music taste. It’s a shame cus we have a ton of shared interest but this… aw man can’t believe this is why we gotta split

          /s incase it wasn’t painfully obvious