It seems like a small thing, but the one person I’d think would ask me the most never really does

  • Dave@lemmy.nz
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    1 year ago

    It seems like a small thing, but the one person I’d think would ask me the most never really does

    How often do you ask them?

    • kennuckies@lemmy.worldOP
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      1 year ago

      I like to ask every day, but I usually just get one word answers and then sometimes they’ll ask how my day was. One comment here has a totally different perspective on that question, though, and it’s got me thinking maybe they just don’t like it.

  • ℕ𝕖𝕞𝕠@midwest.social
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    1 year ago

    Way too often.

    It’s in the past, I don’t need to have feelings about it anymore. Please don’t ask me to form an opinion about a day I’ll never think of again.

    • kennuckies@lemmy.worldOP
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      1 year ago

      It’s so kind of you to ask! Yesterday was awesome, I’m pup sitting for my sister so I get to go on early morning walks.

      How did your day go?

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        1 year ago

        Sorry for the late reply. I got a new job and the work load is pretty overwhelming. It’s fun, but there is a lot of prep work and very little in terms of help or remuneration on that end.

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    1 year ago

    I don’t check every day, but I think the bot here never forgets to ask. I don’t want to share with it though. Y’know, Skynet became self aware in 1997.

  • RBWells@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    We always say goodbye with a kiss in the morning, always greet with a kiss in the evening, I’m more likely to ask about husband and kids’ day than vice versa because kids are students and husband does sales, so their days are more variable.

    I would not worry about it if that’s all it is - build the routine you like. If it’s a sign your person is self centered then maybe worry but maybe they just don’t want this question themselves so don’t think you do. I personally don’t care, because communication in general is good.