But then how else can I overcomplicate things? You’re right, thanks, and also thanks for the heads up on Proxmox. I picked up an old Checkpoint 4800 for less than the 400g solid copper heatsink is worth which I will run Proxmox on, which will give me a chance to get to know it!

This is life-changing. I can’t believe this has been such an easy option!

Like OP, I couldn’t really put my finger on why I found so much of this stuff frustrating, I think this will make a big difference for me.