So would you say the same thing about an usher at a movie theater telling you to shut up or get kicked out? How about a boss telling their employee to take out the trash? A parent telling their kid not to hit their sibling? That’s all the same, right, because they’re all making a demand that someone conducts themself in a certain way?
“respect who I am or I’ll be upset”
“This is who you need to be or I’ll be upset”
Nope, not seeing it.
Both are making a demand, that you conduct yourself in a certain way.
So would you say the same thing about an usher at a movie theater telling you to shut up or get kicked out? How about a boss telling their employee to take out the trash? A parent telling their kid not to hit their sibling? That’s all the same, right, because they’re all making a demand that someone conducts themself in a certain way?
Oh make the statement that you want to make already. Dancing around it allusively just muddles things.
Or you can tell me why my examples are different than yours, or that they really are all the same.
Your mode of conversation is bassackwards and duplicitous. I’ll pass. Lol.