You’re running late for an important job interview due to unexpected traffic. Instead of calling ahead with a white lie about a “family emergency,” you arrive 15 minutes late, tell the truth about the traffic, and lose the opportunity to a punctual candidate

At your current job, you notice a coworker taking credit for your ideas. Rather than confronting them or subtly highlighting your contributions, you stay silent, believing honesty will prevail. Months later, they receive a promotion while you’re passed over

Your neighbor’s tree branches are encroaching on your property, damaging your roof. Instead of trimming them yourself, you follow the legal process, sending certified letters and waiting for responses. By the time you’re legally allowed to act, a storm causes significant damage to your home

One evening, you witness a minor hit-and-run. You report it immediately, providing a detailed statement to the police. This results in hours of questioning, court appearances, and eventually, retaliation from the offender’s friends, all because you did the “right thing.”

Now, let’s see how this pattern of strict rule-following escalates: You wake up one morning to find your favorite coffee mug has a small chip on the rim. Following product safety guidelines to the letter, you discard it immediately, denying yourself the simple pleasure of your morning routine.

While buying a new mug, your car gets a flat tire in the parking lot. Adhering strictly to your car manual’s instructions, you call for professional help instead of changing it yourself, resulting in a hefty service fee and hours of lost time.

At work, your boss implements a new, inefficient process. Instead of suggesting improvements, you follow it to the letter, watching your productivity plummet. You’re put on a performance improvement plan, despite your unwavering compliance with company policies. Stressed and exhausted, you’re involved in a minor fender bender. You immediately admit fault, provide a detailed statement to your insurance company, and agree to pay the deductible without question. Here’s where your commitment to rules and honesty leads to dire consequences:

Your insurance company uses your honest statement against you, raising your premiums significantly. They begin investigating the claim, questioning every aspect of the incident and your medical history. You patiently wait on hold for hours, fill out every form meticulously, and provide all requested documentation promptly. You never complain, never escalate your case, and never seek legal advice, trusting the system to work as it should.

Months pass as you struggle financially. The insurance company continues to delay, citing the need for more information. You comply with every request, no matter how invasive or time-consuming. Your health deteriorates due to stress and inability to afford proper medical care. You consider seeking help but decide against it, believing that following the proper channels will eventually yield results.

Years go by. Your unwavering commitment to honesty and rule-following has cost you your job, your savings, and your health. The constant worry and blind faith in the system have consumed your life. Tragically, before any resolution is reached, the years of stress, inadequate medical care, and financial hardship take their final toll. You pass away, leaving behind an unresolved insurance dispute and a family burdened with debt.

In the end, your steadfast adherence to rules, laws, and absolute honesty resulted in exactly what you warned against – waiting endlessly, only to die before receiving any resolution or compensation. This grim outcome serves as a stark reminder that sometimes, a pragmatic approach and assertively advocating for oneself can be crucial in navigating life’s challenges and bureaucratic systems.

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      23 hours ago

      I learned this as a kid working at a grocery store asking the same question. When you leave your cart by your car instead of returning it, it takes labor to collect the carts around the parking lot. That labor costs money to the company. That money gets passed on to you as a customer buying products.

      The 30-45 seconds it takes to return your cart may seem inconvenient. Rinse, wash, repeat a thousand times in your life. Multiply that by millions of people nationwide across all grocery stores. That adds up.

      Stop being lazy. It’s not hard to return the cart. If we all did it, it would passively reduce labor costs. That could potentially reduce price hikes on food.

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        23 hours ago

        it takes labor to collect the carts

        It’s not about that. I was making a reference to the Shopping Cart Theory as a way of responding to the post.

        potentially reduce price hikes on food

        I admire your boundless optimism! I rather think we’d simply see richer grocery store owners if there were a sudden outbreak of common decency and everyone consistently returned the cart.

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          12 hours ago

          It really isn’t about optimism. I know prices would go up no matter what. But it does allow a bit more passive control without being a twat about leaving carts out.

          I wasn’t aware of the shopping cart theory. Thanks, now I have a name for my belief. :)