Hard disagree. If my father was a piece of shit like this I would definitely want to know. Keeping silent just allows the father skirt responsibility. It’s 100% OP choice though obviously.
This is stuff that can destroy lifes.
True and the only one responsible is the OP’s FIL who hit her up for a root and reduced her to a prostitute; not OP if she hypothetically outed him.
Disagree. If the son cared, he’d end things with his father. He should become a better man than his father. Tell the son, and if he doesn’t respond in support of his wife, then it should probably end there anyhow.
“… hey Mark, I’m truly sorry to have to do this but you need to see this text from your dad.”
Nah. Nothing good will come out of this.
I would rebuff this advance in no uncertain terms. Then ignore and file the father in law under “untrustworthy scum of the earth”.
This is stuff that can destroy lifes.
Hard disagree. If my father was a piece of shit like this I would definitely want to know. Keeping silent just allows the father skirt responsibility. It’s 100% OP choice though obviously.
True and the only one responsible is the OP’s FIL who hit her up for a root and reduced her to a prostitute; not OP if she hypothetically outed him.
Disagree. If the son cared, he’d end things with his father. He should become a better man than his father. Tell the son, and if he doesn’t respond in support of his wife, then it should probably end there anyhow.
By saying nothing you make yourself complicit in keeping this betrayal a secret. Unacceptable to me, at least.
The good thing that will come of this is that Mark will understand why they should never spend time with his dad again