Easy for you to say. Most of the time kids will try to be a part of their parent’s lives. It’s really easy to suggest you’d crash out at the first opportunity, but a lot of people in abusive relationships don’t for a multitude of reasons we won’t fit into this discussion. Especially true for kids as parents are a child’s whole world. There’s no shortage of tales of kids spending a lifetime trying to work around a parent who is abusive or destructive.
A decade later: My kids don’t talk to me. I don’t get it.
A decade? I would cut ties with this asshole 5min after this message. (guess it depends how old the kid in the post is at the time)
Easy for you to say. Most of the time kids will try to be a part of their parent’s lives. It’s really easy to suggest you’d crash out at the first opportunity, but a lot of people in abusive relationships don’t for a multitude of reasons we won’t fit into this discussion. Especially true for kids as parents are a child’s whole world. There’s no shortage of tales of kids spending a lifetime trying to work around a parent who is abusive or destructive.
look, the kids’ hands were tied. What were they supposed to do?
They never gave me a reason just this book of texts explaining exactly why! But it can’t be cuz it makes me the bad guy!