• haui@lemmy.giftedmc.com
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    1 year ago

    Why should your dopamine addiction be my problem?

    The same reason our taxes pay for mental health clinics, addiction therapies, methadone clinics and so on…

    Because it is the right thing to do.

    and secondly, because its not my problem. I‘m just aware of it. This article explains it well. There is a study about it but I can’t find it rn. https://www.marketplace.org/2023/10/10/new-research-quantifies-why-you-want-to-quit-social-media-but-cant/

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      1 year ago

      If you really want to compare social media to drug use, how does the need for decriminalisation fit into this? Don’t limit what people can or can’t do because you fear the outcome. Let everyone (ie users and admins) decide for themselves which platforms they want to see, and give them the tools to do so.

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        1 year ago

        You probably see that you changed gears now, right?

        I answered your question. That is why you should care and not jump on the bandwagon.

        Just for completeness: i never said its completely the same. I said (and have proof) that social media can be and very often is addictive and keeping a profiting company out isnt keeping the drugs from people. Its cutting the dealer out. Basically the same as legalization if you will.

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          1 year ago

          I agree with the premise that Meta is a horrible company and we pay close attention on how its federation progresses. I still have not seen a single argument that holds any weight, from you as well, against the wait and see approach.

          “Because it’s the right thing to do” is not an argument, it’s a statement without anything to back you up. What is right is subjective to everyone.

          Also, I have not changed gears, and still firmly believe there’s a lot to be gained. Any concerns you have, I already answered. Anyone has a place in the fediverse, because its core principle is exactly that. Don’t agree? Then block the fucking instance.

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            1 year ago

            I have to agree with the other commenter now who said you’re likely astroturfing. That or you have significant issues with empathy because the amount of dismissal you show towards other peoples concerns is staggering. Its obvious also from the lack of counterarguments you bring that no amount of sources, evidence or discussion would make you consider an alternative.

            I would pity you but I cant say if you’re not actually paid for what you do so I will just end this conversation now. At least other people are not only hearing your crooked perspective but also some sound arguments.

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              Lmao, I addressed everything you said, have not dismissed anything and countered every single one of your arguments and when you can’t respond anymore you start with namecalling. Maybe don’t pick fights you’re not prepared for.

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                1 year ago

                You responded with „thats not an argument“ or „i refuted your argument“ without anything to refute it with, just your opinion.

                I‘m choosing to withdraw since you dont know how to debate. No point discussing with someone who doesn’t listen.

                Edit: read my text. I‘m not namecalling you. I accuse you of having strong issues with empathy since you dismiss other people‘s problems so easily. You‘re not even able to refute that accurately.

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                  So I tell you to block the instance, or join an instance that has defederated with meta, and you would have literally zero impact of any of what you said, did you reply to that? No.

                  So I follow your addiction rethoric and give you a real life example which contradicts that exact rethoric, did you reply to that? No.

                  I have the same concerns as you, express them but have a different approach, did you reply to that? No.

                  So now I’ll tell you this, instead of projecting, pulling up a strawman and overall passive aggressiveness, do realise we’re on the same team, we all want what is best for the federation. But the great thing about the federation is anyone can choose what they see, literally. For all I know federation with meta turns out to be a giant shit show, for all you know it turns into what could be the best thing for ActivityPub, more users, more publicity, more platforms joining in. I am open to being wrong, but are you?

                  Edit: Why not wait and see.

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                    1 year ago

                    I do appreciate that you elaborate in your thoughts and opinions, I really do.

                    While that is true, I usually try to avoid biases. That is why I believe science, not people. I proved my opinion that social media has addictive qualities. The example you brought is not proof. That is why I didn’t think to refute it but felt like you were not being serious.

                    I accept that you probably want the fediverse to succeed but we have very different approaches to achieving that.

                    I can prove that the fediverse is growing organically. I can prove that aggressive growth is going to be very bad despite it being the current trend in business. I can prove that the fediverse is democratic and that meta is autocratic, and so on and so forth.

                    We are using different approached and have not been talking to each other but to ourselves, I‘d say.

                    If you‘re interested in a more open discussion, feel free to bring proof of your theories and we can discuss them.