• machinin@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    Anybody yelling while arguing is an abuser.

    While I agree with most of your comment, two people can get into a heated argument with yelling involved, but I wouldn’t necessarily call it abusive. Yelling of a sign of abuse, but not all yelling is abuse.

    • UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works
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      10 months ago

      I can see where youre coming from, but the only time I’ve screamed at someone it’s because they were either abusing me or someone I cared about. Every healthy relationship I have were able to talk through problems.

      Screaming should be left for fun and/or competitive situations (within limits of course)

      • machinin@lemmy.world
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        10 months ago

        I’m not saying people who scream at each other are in a healthy relationship either. It isn’t healthy usually. I just think we need to distinguish between abuse and unhealthy or undeveloped communication skills.