Having to be OK with them going into our bathrooms, not knowing if they could be a predator or not
Let me ask you something. You just outlined how much time, money and effort someone has to put into trying to transition. Hormone pills (and all of the problems that come with that), a change of wardrobe, a change in how they’re asking people to view and refer to them… Dealing with people like you, who look down on them for trying it… Hate from far right groups, persecution from some governments… General social stigma…
Do you really think someone is going to go through all of that, and more that you haven’t even covered here, just so they can walk into a women’s room to… do whatever it is you’re afraid they’re doing? Really? I think the chances are better that any random woman you run into in the bathroom is a predator, honestly.
Who are you to tell anyone how to spend their time? How they conceive of themselves in their minds (where they do feel good (hopefully) about who they are) does not match their physical bodies (which can feel alien and abhorrent to them). Feel humbled you have never experienced such a state of being, and let people rock on with they bad selves.
Let me ask you something. You just outlined how much time, money and effort someone has to put into trying to transition. Hormone pills (and all of the problems that come with that), a change of wardrobe, a change in how they’re asking people to view and refer to them… Dealing with people like you, who look down on them for trying it… Hate from far right groups, persecution from some governments… General social stigma…
Do you really think someone is going to go through all of that, and more that you haven’t even covered here, just so they can walk into a women’s room to… do whatever it is you’re afraid they’re doing? Really? I think the chances are better that any random woman you run into in the bathroom is a predator, honestly.
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That’s not what I asked you, though.
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Who are you to tell anyone how to spend their time? How they conceive of themselves in their minds (where they do feel good (hopefully) about who they are) does not match their physical bodies (which can feel alien and abhorrent to them). Feel humbled you have never experienced such a state of being, and let people rock on with they bad selves.
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No one needs your acceptance in this situation. Don’t judge things you don’t understand, THAT is actually wasting time.