My wife and I don’t hesitate at all to talk about hot people we see. Is that really so uncommon?

Or you can just say yes. You don’t usually stop finding other people attractive when you are in a relationship

“It was a man actually”

“Of course she was, she looked like you”

C’mon dude. You already set this up.

Are people not allowed to find others attractive after they’re married or something? What is this sentiment?

Yes you are!

I thought she was looking a bit chubby recently to be honest

It’s a trap!