I was just browsing a thread on c/nfl looking for new mods. There were multiple 12+ year Redditors there offering to help.
Got me wondering. There are 14,000 of us in this community. How many of us are ten year plus users who have just had enough?
Edit: I didn’t expect this post to be as poignant as it became. There are so many of you… I can’t reply to everyone. I’m an 11 year user and have modded something like 150 subs over the years. I’m really sad too, but I’m finding that lemmy has most of the content I’m looking for, just needs more comments.
The API was a big blow, but removing awards on past posts and deleting coin balances is really dumb.
16y Redditor here
👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻
Same here. Came over in the digg migration, left when 3rd party apps died.
Does this feel like Reddit did then? Does to me.
I’ll piggyback and say that it feels similar. The biggest difference is not having huge default subs shaping the experience. Lemmy also feels more sparse in the comments, but that’s not necessarily a bad thing.
Agreed. Feels like early Reddit did. Lower quantity, higher quality.
Another thing is I feel like I’m trying harder to contribute positively; I want Lemmy to succeed so that (hopefully) we can avoid the enshitification that inevitably plagues the commercialized platforms.
Totally agree. I’ve only posted a pun a handful of times!
I think this is a good point. When I got here, before I started shaping my feed, it was basically rule196, furry porn, tankies and memes.
Actually… A lot like Reddit in the Digg days, minus the tankies.
Less “gems” and rage comics and “Le”, but the same idea, modernized for 2023.
It was those of us (probably in this Lemmy thread, ironically, 15 years-ish later) who outlasted the Le gems of Reddit, and turned it into the modern place.
Then, spez. Fuck spez
I’m fine with a few hundred or two size type comments. Reddit had threads with like 1.4k comments or even double that sometimes. While it’s nice to have that type of size, I am NOT reading all those comments, so the size is irrelevant after a certain threshold point.
Kinda? I was a lot younger then, and this feels way more left wing politically now. Maybe I just got more conservative as I aged, or the internet got more left wing. Or maybe a little of both.
Or, maybe, the world is more liberal than you’ve been led to believe as your circle of influence grew smaller as you got older.
Reality has a liberal bias
Stopping in to drop a semi-ironic “this^”
10 years ago people would write “this^” without a trace of irony on Reddit. So you are kinda ruining the experience by being semi-ironic.
Only semi-ruining tho. Life is about balance ;)
Same boat. I remember being a big fan of Digg (and Kevin Rose), and looking down upon “new” copycat… Reddit. Then they completely changed (removed voting?) almost overnight, and so I gave Reddit a chance. Loved it (and later Sync) and used almost daily! Until… well, fuck Steve Huffman, we all know what happened. Hello Lemmy.
I have not deleted account or comments yet, but logged out everywhere, try to never visit, and will never use the (ad-infested) app. Lemmy community (and Liftoff) has been great, just needs to keep growing with good people.
Digg migrant here as well. I’m getting cozy over here now, not looking back.
I, too, am Spartacus.
14 years with an account. A year or so of lurking before that.
Sites come and go.
I like telling stories of the olden days of the internet. Like being user #132 on mp3.com and having chats with people like Darude (before sandstorm) and Dido (before Eminem). It was an amazing place. Now it isn’t.
Reddit will follow.
As they all do
Yeah, I was never a fan of Scrubs, but several years into the show I heard Lazlo Bane’s “Superman” in the show titles and I was like… huh, they got that from MP3.com? Turns out Zach Braff was friends with the band members.
I still have lots of MP3.com stuff in my music archive, including folks who never made the transition to Youtube and pretty much don’t exist on the Internet at all anymore.
Jolly Rancher
Gargh!
Swamps of Dagobah
My greatest internet achievement: I came up with the name for that story!
Okay, not quite, I came up with calling it “The Dagobah Story”, but close enough! :D
This guy
450k comment karma; I check twice a day and it looks like it’s gone down hill. Shits just crypto spam and UFO bullshit now. What’s the deal with the giant hard on for UFOs? If Trump didn’t blab the second he found out then that should be proof enough for everyone.
Stop checking.
12 years here sounding off
'ello there! I have my 11 year badge on my primary reddit account. I haven’t bothered to go back to reddit, and I don’t really have much desire. I’m splitting my time pretty evenly between Lemmy and Squabbles.
I also appreciate that neither of these communities have been completely co-opted by psycho alt-right nutjobs like Voat was.
edit: my biggest regret was that I was something like 12k comment karma away from making it to centuryclub :( that was kind of a big deal as a casual poster who usually showed up to threads way too late.
I feel the century club pain!
Came before digg as a lurker then left when unbearable and did it again now. I also found a bunch of new discord and communities to replace reddit. I didnt complain, just packed up my shit and left. Sucks for my professional outlets on there but meh, plenty of user groups that aren’t trying to monetize my contributions and own my thoughts.
I moved from Digg to reddit about 15 years ago, before the mass Digg exodus. For the last 5 years I was a paid reddit subscriber, mostly just because it was my most visited site and I wanted to support it.
Immediately after the API announcements, I cancelled my subscription and deleted all my posts. I also deleted most of my comments, and edited some to say I’ve moved to Lemmy. I planned to do that with all of them but I got bored.
There are some niche subreddits I still visit directly because I haven’t found comparable communities, but I barely use the site at all anymore. I’m enjoying Lemmy and have also dipped back into RSS feeds for the first time in about a decade.
Unless something drastically changes, I will never post or comment there again. It’s only a matter of time before I ditch it completely.
I think 7 years? I browsed reddit for a while before that reading up on my interests but eventually I created an account. Spent a LOT of time on subs for people who were abused as children. Therapy was used against me as part of the abuse. I am triggered by therapists now -.-" so these online self help spaces were a major part of my journey to understand and start recovery. It became a cornerstone to help me become a person.
Eventually several of these subs had a lot of internal drama. Back then I felt fealty to these communities and tried super hard to fix it. No avail. In a way I did my reorienting and mourning my lost community back then. I cut back on reddit use like 80% already going from many hours a day to maybe a few times a week? I’d still engage if something caught my attention. Especially in the refugee subs about childhood abuse that sprung up.
The recent protests brought that down to “only if I need some specific information”. Maybe twice a month? I don’t engage at all anymore. I also didn’t feel like talking to a brick wall again to attempt to fix an online place. The rhethoric and even some methods between spez and some mods I tangled with is similar enough. I just left this time around. Let my actions speak. I can’t bring my self to delete my comments tho.
I still miss a place where people intuitively get what I’ve been through because they have similar stories. And I’d like to pass it forward some more. I haven’t found anything similar on the fediverse yet. But I’m in a place where I don’t need it much anymore. It’s still just sad that a handful of humans can destroy communities like this. It had such a big impact on my life.
Thanks for reading my sad ramblings!
12 years here sounding off
12 years. The amount of knowledge and experience shared in a conversational style was invaluable, but I cannot keep using a service that is hostile to users like me/us.
Lurked reddit since 2006 (a year after it was founded); joined in 2008.
Leaving wasn’t easy. Quitting tobacco was less difficult. But fuck 'em. I’m done.
