At the risk of making a serious reply in a shitpost thread…
Who you’re attracted to and what you’re looking for is subjective. No one else gets a say in what that is.
However, there are repercussions. The more rare what you’re looking for is, the harder it is to find. The more broadly desired what you’re looking for is, the more you’re competing with other people.
So sure, go looking for what you want, but be aware that you might be looking a long time, and they might not be interested in you.
At the risk of making a serious reply in a shitpost thread…
Who you’re attracted to and what you’re looking for is subjective. No one else gets a say in what that is.
However, there are repercussions. The more rare what you’re looking for is, the harder it is to find. The more broadly desired what you’re looking for is, the more you’re competing with other people.
So sure, go looking for what you want, but be aware that you might be looking a long time, and they might not be interested in you.