• Tattorack@lemmy.world
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    16 days ago

    No thank you. I don’t have the time, the money, or the energy to go looking for a girlfriend… Or spend it on a whole other human and their unique set of needs.

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      16 days ago

      What if I were to tell you you’re supposed to get some of that back in a relationship as it moves towards becoming a partnership?

      Or that hanging out with them, aka a date, is supposed to be fun?

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        16 days ago

        If you feel like it’s fun or that you need a partnership, then go ahead. My time is already divided as it is, and I just don’t want it even more divided.

        I hardly have any time left to do the things I want to do, to study art and practice 3D. Any time I spend on other things most certainly will not be taken away from my job hours, but will be from my free time.

        So I don’t want to waste time and money trying to find someone in the first place (most people are incredibly unitereresting), and then waste even more time trying to make it work.