• Obinice@lemmy.world
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    Uh, what?

    What makes you think Christmas is for kids? Just because they enjoy it? Shall we ban movies, video games, etc for adults too?

    I’ve never heard someone suggest that adults shouldn’t enjoy their hard earned holidays, and spread joy with gifts and such to each other, because they’re no longer 12 or whatever.

    What makes you think my and my family and friends enjoyment of Christmas is less important than slightly reducing how much money some shop might make for a few weeks?

    I’ll keep enjoying the small joys of life, thanks. Kids can sod off.

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      I specified gifts. You can still enjoy the holiday without excessive unnecessary consumption.

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        I’m sorry that you can’t enjoy your Xmas if adult exchange gifts.

        I feel badly for you. And a large part of me suspects this post is just trawling for arguments and bad faith.

        Happy Holidays!

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          OP’s post is not mean-spirited in any way. Re-read it and see. You, on the other hand, have rushed straight to condescension (“I feel badly for you”) and a outright accusations of bad faith. “Happy holidays” indeed.

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          I’m sorry you can’t distinguish materialism as distinctly different from celebrating with family and friends. Enjoy being brainwashed by ads.

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            I’m making gifts for family that I know they will love and appreciate. Gift giving is only as much about consumerism as you make it. To reject getting joy out of seeing someone else get something they would love is a bit short sighted.

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              That’s awesome, but let’s not ignore the billions in profits, and questionable spending, and plastic waste production that goes on every year because people feel cultural pressure to buy things for other adults. For every one thoughtful person like you, there’s a thousand buying junk nobody wants or needs.

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            Yeah, you’re completely missing why adults like gift exchanges. Hint: it’s not because of ads and consumerism.

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              Yeah it is. Consumerism eats into all of us, hard. All those gazillions spent on marketing junk to us, do you think the executives would sign off on it if it had no effect?