I just reached 112 myself.
I’m very much awaiting a time when users can block specific instances. I still don’t want to check the option to hide NSFW content, because I do want to see NSFW content that may show up on non-porn communities. Just not really interested in seeing so much porn in All.
You can check on your settings page, btw, in the Blocks tab - count quickly with Ctrl+F.
It’s wrong because most of the time that isn’t something your SO will be ok with. If your wife is ok with it, thats that.
It is unreasonable to not be okay with fantasizing.
You’ve had some weird, prudish SO’s then, thats perfectly normal and if a woman i was dating was that controlling, I would be out the door.
I’m surprised you see it as prudish not wanting your SO lusting for and jerking off to other women having sex. Why not attend strip clubs too. Watching some women dance is tamer than watching them have sex.
And I’ve never had a SO who would be against me going to strip clubs either. That seems prudish as well.
When you grow up you realize the world isn’t quite so black and white.
I’m not sure how much more nuance there can be than ‘most people arent ok with it, but I get it if you and your wife are’