• Betty White In HD@lemmy.world
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    1 year ago

    It just sucks to be poor in the US.

    I mean sure, but also as opposed to where? Where does it not suck to be poor? The vast majority of the world is a) very poor compared to the US and b) life isn’t that great when you’re poor anywhere.

    I get that Europe and especially the Nordic countries get brought up a lot in this argument, but relatively few places in the world actually have decent social safety nets for the poor. Especially when you consider population numbers into account and consider where most people actually live. Most of the world is, to be completely blunt, a fucking nightmare compared to the US, unless you have money.

    Look, I’m not blind to our faults, the US has many, so, so many but I was born and lived elsewhere and I’ve traveled to other countries and talk to and sometimes get to work with people from all over the world. The US, for all its faults, is still way better to the average person than the majority of the world. And I do take a person of a random gender/identity, religion, social and monetary status, etc into account.

    Also there’s so much variety of nature for one country, it’s nuts.

    That’s a great benefit and one that I don’t take for granted, but there are so many others. You should come visit if you ever get the chance and it really isn’t as dangerous or crime ridden as you may think and there’s a lot more to this country than people think.

    We absolutely and definitely have a ton of issues and we always have, this was always an odd experiment, but again consider the fact why people from all over come here and consider that so many great, well known people and media and inventions come from here.

    Again, I get it, AMERICA BAD and it’s fun to shit on fat, stupid Americans with their constant news and shootings that happen to everyone all the time and they don’t even know where Luxembourg is and their big cars and you can’t even walk anywhere and people are angry about it and everyone’s in a constant crisis all the time. But also consider that that’s not the reality for most people and maybe some people actually prefer to sit in perfectly climate controlled, tailored to them car where they can blast their own tunes vs being on a bus or a train sometimes.

    I don’t know, I like it here and it’s generally OK.

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      1 year ago

      Until your kid gets shot at school, or maybe some other kids in the next city or state… and then it happens the next week at the mall, and the week after at a church, and the week after forever and ever, and you wonder how long until it’s your turn, and you think that you wouldn’t have to even consider that if you lived almost anywhere else on the planet.

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        What if I told you that I’ve lived here over 20 years and have been all over the country and never been around a shooting, not even once?

        We have a gun problem, 100%, but it’s not as prevalent as the news would like you to believe and unlike people that don’t live here would like you to believe we’re not all constantly getting shot all the time. It happens, it happens a lot and every single time it does it’s unacceptable, but it’s not really a concern for the vast majority of the people living here.

        Anecdotally I’ve been mugged at knife point in UK.

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        1 year ago

        Despite the point you are trying to makes, the kind of events you are describing make up a very small portion of gun violence. The majority of it is crime/gang related, or suicide. Not that that’s really any better, but schools and malls aren’t being shot up every week.

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      1 year ago

      What’s up with the fact that y’all always compare your country to the third world to make it look better, rather than comparing it to other developed nations?

      In fact, even in most 3rd world countries, being poor isn’t penalized as much as in the US because you can’t be hit with random six figure medical bills

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        1 year ago

        What about comparing it to the UK which has similar problems to the US? barring medical but then again the Tory party are trying to privatize the NHS so not far off