• Lulu@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    this is understandable due to women being.unable to fight back and such. a woman will get very scarred by such, a man would just get frustrated abt a woman yelling though.

    • UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works
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      10 months ago

      If you go by traditional standards, yes. But more and more we are learning that men can be the abused too.

      But regardless of being able to fight back, no side should be yelling at the other. Anybody yelling while arguing is an abuser.

      • machinin@lemmy.world
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        10 months ago

        Anybody yelling while arguing is an abuser.

        While I agree with most of your comment, two people can get into a heated argument with yelling involved, but I wouldn’t necessarily call it abusive. Yelling of a sign of abuse, but not all yelling is abuse.

        • UrPartnerInCrime@sh.itjust.works
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          10 months ago

          I can see where youre coming from, but the only time I’ve screamed at someone it’s because they were either abusing me or someone I cared about. Every healthy relationship I have were able to talk through problems.

          Screaming should be left for fun and/or competitive situations (within limits of course)

          • machinin@lemmy.world
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            10 months ago

            I’m not saying people who scream at each other are in a healthy relationship either. It isn’t healthy usually. I just think we need to distinguish between abuse and unhealthy or undeveloped communication skills.

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      10 months ago

      a man would just get frustrated abt a woman yelling though

      Thank you for completely disregarding the emotions of half the planet, very cool and very humanizing

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      10 months ago

      Many people in abusive relationships don’t “fight back” because they’re emotionally abused as well, which seems likely relevant to someone searching for “x is yelling at me” (whatever the sex race or age).