I was like that when I was young. Now all my plans involve me forcing myself to do 1 or 2 productive things a day besides the stuff I have to do, and then just calling it a day and pushing aside the rest of the stuff I probably should do till tomorrow. Or more realistically, the next weekend or holiday.
I don’t lie to myself anymore, I just admit that if it’s not 100% vital, it won’t get done quick, if at all.
Commenting so I can upvote your comment because Memmy covers up the button. Here’s hoping we all become our best selves. Even Memmy.
I’ve found the closest thing to a panacea for this is a mixture of willingness to fail and self forgiveness for falling off the horse. Everyday is a new opportunity to get back on it. And if you’re not feeling it today, it’s generally ok to just wait until tomorrow (this works for me because I have to be very gentle to myself sometimes, idk if this part will work for everyone. You kind of have to [or at least, I have to] address all the other potential issues, like anxiety or depression, before the motivation to do stuff follows).
Idk why I’m posting this on a shitpost, but if it helps even one person, seems like it’s worth posting.
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I like how they got a checkmark next to “Axe Murder”, as if they were somehow able to prove that.
I mean, depending how overt they are, it doesn’t really seem that hard to prove
Then you need to try habit stacking. Add 1 thing to your routine a month. 28 days to form a habit, so don’t bite off an entire new lifestyle, CREATE the lifestyle over a year.
This is why I am so grateful for my gf. I have no motivation and need someone to push me forward in life, she’s a workaholic and needs someone to help her slow down and relax. We really balance each other out
