• NoIWontPickAName@kbin.earth
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      6 months ago

      I mean, as a dude, I damn sure would feel safest around lesbians if I was worried about that.

      Idk what like the girl animal “equivalent” of a bear would be, except one that I am not quite sure if it is offensive or not.

      Fucking queer is super accepted now, but then I watch my daughter, who has dated women before, and is not shy or ashamed, and I do believe is still fine with doing so in the future, call her brother or someone on YouTube gay as an insult.

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        6 months ago

        The current “equivalent” I’ve seen is would you rather share your emotions with a tree or a woman.

      • GiveMemes@jlai.lu
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        6 months ago

        I’m bi and call stuff I don’t like ‘gay’ all the time. I also call stuff I like ‘gay’. I don’t think that the use of a term by those it applies to can really be negative as its more of an empowerment thing abt takibg the word back for the community. It’s like getting mad at people that call each other the n-word (especially if you aren’t black yourself).